Hard Choices

Advice for Life: “Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.” – Ps. Troy Gramling of Potential Church

A STORY OF HARD CHOICES

Now two prostitutes came to the king (Solomon) and stood before him. One of them said, "Pardon me, my lord. This woman and I live in the same house, and I had a baby while she was there with me. The third day after my child was born, this woman also had a baby. We were alone; there was no one in the house but the two of us. 

"During the night this woman's son died because she lay on him. So she got up in the middle of the night and took my son from my side while I your servant was asleep. She put him by her breast and put her dead son by my breast. The next morning, I got up to nurse my son—and he was dead! But when I looked at him closely in the morning light, I saw that it wasn't the son I had borne." 

The other woman said, "No! The living one is my son; the dead one is yours."

But the first one insisted, "No! The dead one is yours; the living one is mine." And so they argued before the king. 

The king said, "This one says, 'My son is alive and your son is dead,' while that one says, 'No! Your son is dead and mine is alive.'" 

Then the king said, "Bring me a sword." So they brought a sword for the king. He then gave an order: "Cut the living child in two and give half to one and half to the other." 

The woman whose son was alive was deeply moved out of love for her son and said to the king, "Please, my lord, give her the living baby! Don't kill him!"

But the other said, "Neither I nor you shall have him. Cut him in two!" 

Then the king gave his ruling: "Give the living baby to the first woman. Do not kill him; she is his mother." 

When all Israel heard the verdict the king had given, they held the king in awe, because they saw that he had wisdom from God to administer justice. (1 Kings 3:16-28 NIV emphasis added)


Beloved, as I pondered the quote above from my pastor, I wanted to lead you to scripture that spoke to the matter, that I could recall, but I couldn’t recall and I couldn’t find a verse that spoke to it. So as I asked God to help me remember, the story of the two women and a child came to mind. God is amazing in giving us friendly reminders. He’s always there!

From the above verses in scripture, we see the advice come to life. The permanent decisions and temporary emotions that resulted. But here’s the best part of that story that we can all apply to our lives. When faced with a tough situation that we are unable to come to a responsible and amicable conclusion, we need to look to the Lord, whose the King of kings and Lord of lords to render His final judgement based upon the truth.


Let us pray:

God, you are King! Filled with all Wisdom and Understanding. Only You can truly discern between what is false and truth. In our time of need and struggle when we are unable to make the appropriate decisions, may You be the True Judge who discerns the truth. In Jesus name, we pray. Amen.