Showing posts with label Every Day A Friday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Every Day A Friday. Show all posts

Saturday, November 10, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.27): Every Day A Friday

Wear Your Blessings Well



Ruth, Ruth, how we thank you for your obedience.
Naomi, Naomi, how we thank you for your wisdom.
Boaz, Boaz, how we thank you for your leadership, compassion, mercy and love.
LORD, our LORD, how we thank you for your faithfulness!




Let me just start by acknowledging that this is the last report I’m doing on the last chapter of Joel Osteen’s Every Day A Friday... I don’t want you to miss out on this monumental blessing!

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.26): Every Day A Friday

The Voice of Victory


“It’s the voice of victory, the voice of victory, can you hear it, can you hear it! It comes from God, it comes from God... He speaks to us through the H.O.L.Y. Spirit!" — F. Lugo


What do the words, “stay tuned” mean to you?

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.25): Every Day A Friday

Encourage Yourself



“May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.” (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17 NIV)



To be encouraged or not to be, that is the question. Actually in chapter twenty-five of Every Day A Friday, that’s actually the question. Will we encourage ourselves? Well... Can we? Will we? By the end of this post, you will have been blessed beyond your wildest dreams. I declare it over these words, and over your lives! In Jesus name, Amen.

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.24): Every Day A Friday

Living as a Healer




Beloved, I heard and I read that the population of this world has grown to 7 Billion people. That’s a lot of people. That’s a lot of voices speaking and wanting to be heard. That is a lot of happy times I hope, but from the news that we take in about the whole world, it’s an alarming reality more and more, that it’s a lot of pain, hurt, broken-hearts, sorrow, sadness, despair, anger, destruction and violence out there.

Those 7 Billion voices most likely are crying out to be helped, to be loved and to be understood.

Those 7 Billion precious lives, that can fill me with great hope, joy, inspiration, a driven passion and hope, have also made me cry for hours on end, have burdened me to no longer be part of the problem but a part of the solution. Those voices are what drives me to pursue God, and invest all of myself to effect change in this world.



To me 7 Billion is my favorite number, because 7 Billion is what always has my Father and God’s attention. Amen.

Thursday, October 11, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.23): Every Day A Friday

Be a People Builder




Are you an encourager? Can anyone “Be a People Builder?” Such questions may very well cause many to shake their heads in a (no) response.

But why is that? Why aren’t we all encouragers. Why aren’t we building up people on a day-to-day basis?

I believe the answer lies within this quote from Joel Osteen, as he dives into chapter twenty-three of Every Day A Friday, with this powerful statistic:

Monday, October 8, 2012

My Book Report (Ch. 22): Every Day A Friday

Help Other to Win




Beloved, chapter twenty-two is a touchy subject to say the least. Not so much of a personal one for me, but I boldly say, for the world at large! The human race, in that it is seen as a rat race and lives by the motto, “It’s a dog-eat-dog world.” In that statement alone lies the problem and the troubles for countless human beings all over the world.


You cannot expect to see things as a dog-eat-dog world, and not experience getting bitten by others in the process, if you yourself, aim to bite and tear at others.

Jesus has quite the radical viewpoint on this...

Saturday, October 6, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 21): Every Day A Friday




Smile, and the World Smiles with You




I want to laugh more and stress less. Here’s a joke. Two monkeys were playing but one fell into the water below. The one still dry laughed and laughed, but the wet one, was laughing even harder. The dry one says “what’s so funny, you’re the one that’s wet!” The wet one said, “yeah that’s true, but there’s a cougar behind you... Bon appétit”

Thursday, October 4, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.19): Every Day A Friday

Seeing Through Eyes of Love




I am, an extremely fortunate man. Not because I have numerous friends, a bank account that many would envy, a fancy car parked in front of a palatial home, but because I belong to a grand family— Not to a huge family here on earth in the traditional sense, although that can certainly bless a man, but a heavenly family that overlooks my life, my journey; my walk of faith with Jesus, and brothers and sisters here on earth that are citizens of the Kingdom of heaven. My fortune is in knowing they too, have ran the race and kept the faith. My fortune is in knowing they reside with the King forever! My fortune is in knowing they are doing well. My fortune is in hearing their voices. My fortune is in praying and encouraging them. My FORTUNE! God gives me day by day. That’s what makes me a fortunate man, and in turn that’s why I write encouraging life-filled words to you passionately and with commitment, looking to the Lord Jesus to run my race with determination and enthusiasm. God is my EVERYTHING. Amen.



Beloved, chapter nineteen of Joel Osteen’s Every Day A Friday is filled with many stories, where moments leading to misfortune were turned around and seized and became FORTUNE.


Let’s dig right in!

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.18): Every Day A Friday

Dont Have A Critical Spirit




Flavio, a critical spirit creates a dirty view of your world. Unless the view; the window you look through is clean, you will never be able to see what good things God has in store for you. 


Beloved, I started this message from God’s heart to my heart to your precious heart with a lesson for myself to be reminded of, encouraged from, and disciplined by. It’s always good to be a self-motivator and to encourage and challenge yourself. But in my case, don’t allow it to get out of hand.


In Chapter 18 of Joel Osteen’s Every Day A Friday,

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

My Book Report (Ch.17): Every Day A Friday

Dealing with Unexpected Difficulties



God bless you, keep you and increase you on this day beloved in Christ Jesus. Amen.


Father, I am moved to pray for all who take in these words. Father there is no other amongst the living or the dead that compares to you. None! I praise You for choosing me to preach the Word of Truth and freedom! I confess to You that it is a tall order for me, and I have shrunk back in fear many times, but I also confess You My Holy Father, are faithful and true to Your Word! You do not leave me. You do not abandon me, and in Christ Jesus I have the victory! Therefore, let it be known and let my life be an everlasting thanks to You for Your renewed mercies over my weakness. Your grace and compassion to forgive my sin, and to the glory of Your Son in dying for me, and for all who would believe in Him! I pray, You continue to lift up your servant and child that he may proclaim boldly truth and freedom that comes only by Your Righteous Word! That they may know You, and that I will experience eternal fellowship with You in proclaiming Your Good News in the name above all names, Jesus Christ. It's my prayer that by the end of this, many will have a greater scope and foundation that You Lord are the Great Healer; Precise Physician who brings true healing to the heart, mind, body and soul. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

Monday, October 1, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 16): Every Day A Friday

Overcoming Discouragement



It's truly is a time to rejoice when you can look at your life and see the many times a picture of “Overcoming Discouragement” become a display of beauty for all to see.

Chapter sixteen of Joel Osteen's Every Day A Friday is chocked full of such portraits of beauty.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

A Thankful Post: Reading Is FUNdaMENTAL

Beloved, I wanted to share with you this very thought I had moments ago. As I was reading Joel Osteen’s Every Day A Friday, I was so unbelievably thankful to God that although many areas of my life are an ongoing process as I certainly don’t have it all together, I have the extreme pleasure of knowing how to read and knowing how to write.

Yup! For me, reading and writing are escapes to a world where there is peace, there is continual encouragement and there is a bridge that closes the gap from me to you, where we are the closest of friends and we are a loving family that I can share my thoughts, feelings, dreams, desires and fears with. I can let you know what makes me laugh and cry, and we don’t need to worry about any of us looking at each other with a critical and judgmental spirit, but with all the compassion, understanding and love we accept each other for who we are. Amen.

Reading to me is FUN and if we choose wisely and allow what we read to sink into everything we are, it will not only stimulate us MENTALLY, but a part of us will FOREVER change and the treasury of our HEART will have grown dramatically. Amen! Don’t you agree?

So as I return back to Chapter 19 “Seeing Through Eyes of Love” from Joel Osteen’s Every Day A Friday, I hope this thankful post will have in some way encouraged you as it was placed into my heart to reach out and LOVE YOU.

God’s blessings of peace, joy and love be with you, in Jesus name. Amen.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 13): Every Day A Friday

Chapter Thirteen


Can you believe it?! Every time I read a chapter out of Joel Osteen’s Every Day A Friday I think it's the best chapter and then I read the very next chapter, and it seems to outdo the previous one. What I realized last night (being Sunday May 6, 2012) and today! Is that we aren't to be in competition with anyone. We are simply to run our race the best way we can, to be the best we can be.

Every chapter seems to get better but not every chapter is competing with the previous or the one that is to follow. No! They were all created for one purpose. To show and help anyone who will read them understand themselves and their God-given potential by coming to understand that God is for them and not against them.

Chapter thirteen has been an exciting reminder and revelation to me, my life and my outlook. I was reminded that if I get caught up in what someone else is doing or accomplishing, I won't realize what I'm able to do and get accomplished. And here's the revelation! Anytime we compete with anyone else, we are really in competition with God. For God outlines a person’s abilities. As it’s written, “Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them.” (Romans 12:6 NKJV).
Therefore, who of us can compete and win against the Creator of the Universe?!

I must confess a great pleasure and later an agonizing pain I have experienced. When I first started to walk with the Lord and learn and experience many great things from Him, I came to a cross roads. I saw many things I had in common with the apostle Paul, and I looked up to the Lord in tears and and said to Him, “Am I to be Paul.”

Something dawned on me now. As I progressed from that day nearly three years ago, God never gave me a definitive answer to my question, but He told me along a path that would start to define who I am. Through 3 years of extensive reflection, many falls and many moments of the Lord picking me up and allowing me to pick myself up, I have conclusive facts of who I am. I'm Flavio— a child of Almighty God. No more and no less.

I am me. I am blessed to be me. I am blessed to know God and continually blessed to experience Him in every area of my life. I am me!

There's no one like me. There's no one who can be the best at being me other than me. I may not be as good at many things than others, but I am able, empowered and anointed by God to be the very best Flavio I can be. That isn't just fine with me, that's a relief! Thank you my God!

I know what it is to be in competition with God, with others as well as myself. It's terrible. It's agonizing. It's a lose - lose situation. Therefore, I am recommitting, refocusing, and re-energized to run my race!



My Takeaway:

In a race the runner need not worry about others, but run their race. When the runner decides to look to their left, right or to look back, that's when they stop running their race and start to compete. When it's a competition there's always an approaching risk of failure and defeat. But running your own race will always secure and result in Victory!

Here's God's encouraging word to me, that I share with you all: Keep your eyes forward on the goal and you'll far exceed your own expectations in running YOUR race.

As always...YOU ARE LOVED.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 14): Every Day A Friday

Chapter Fourteen


As the plug slips away from the socket, the light flickers and suddenly it becomes dark... What happened?! The right connection became no more as the plug and source of power, were no longer connected as one.

Beloved, today I come to you to share some insight into, "Connecting With The Right People." In chapter fourteen of Joel Osteen's Everyday A Friday, it made me explore a very personal look into my faith walk with the Lord as God illuminated the way through Joel's words.

As I read this chapter, I was reminded and encouraged of how God is. I too, like many, have received a word from God as a deposited promise for my life both current and for the future. In other words, God's promise towards my destiny. The Lord spoke to me concerning My life being a life of servitude. Concerning me "not being a rich man but a thankful man." Concerning me being called into ministry. Concerning the wife that is for me.

Not only has God exemplified in my life that He will never leave me, forget me or abandon me, but also, that His Word to me is His very promise and although others may abandon me, forget about me, and their word vanishes not to remain a promise to me, that in this world, all will vanish but the Lord's Word to me (to all of creation) will by no means disappear. Amen.

I am thankful to God just as Joel says, 'that I and God are a majority' because it has been proven over and over again to me. Others say no, but God said yes! Others could not see the vision, but God opened my eyes to see from His view of things. Doubt tried to settle in, yet His voice spoke encouragement into me. When a sea of despair was before me, the presence of the Almighty parted the doom & gloom and made a way for me to remain untouched by it. Amen!

Joel shares, "If you remove the negative people from your life, God will bring positive people into it." There may be many obstacles, and many people along the way who simply DO NOT have your best interest in mind, but as the Lord Jesus set the example for us, let us all clear out what isn't an encouragement to us, and is trying to keep us from pursuing, experiencing and accomplishing our God-given destiny. Amen. Joel further shares, "Do not waste time with people who don't value your gifts or appreciate what you have to offer. That's casting your pearls before swine." We all need to conceal what is holy, and surround ourselves with the right people. Not having an inner circle of friends and confidants may very well be what's keeping both you and I from pursuing, experiencing, and accomplishing something that will leave a lasting legacy and fulfill our God-given destiny.



My Takeaway:

Only what God has ordained and anointed for our lives will connect with the dream; the promise, that He deposited within us to start moving, come to life and see the light of day. Amen. 


Here's my prayer:


Father God, thank you for Your Word. A lasting promise to stand forever that You indeed have a plan that is not to harm us, but to give us a hope and future. Father, how amazing You truly are! May You help us O Father, to choose wisely those who we let in our lives, and those who we need to remove from our lives. That we may see the destiny we have in You become a reality and a blessing to You, to us and to all. In Jesus name, we pray. Amen.


Beloved, as always...YOU ARE LOVED.





Wednesday, June 13, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 12): Every Day A Friday

Chapter Twelve


Don't you just loooove when someone approves of you? Your outfit, your body, your work, your home, your car, your spouse, even the kind of scent your perfume or cologne has. It makes you feel good. It makes you feel loved. It makes you feel valuable— someone who carries worth in the eyes of others.

There's something to approval. It can be dangerously appealing. It can cause us to invest ourselves completely into what others say or think about us. In essence we buy into their willingness to shake there heads up and down in approval at our lives.

Why is this a very dangerous thing? When we have invested everything into others and we decide to do something else, say something unlike we said before, even change the way we act and what we believe in, those who once approved start to disapprove and we don't see a return on our investment. All we're left with is an empty heart depleted and void of everything because we gave it all to those who no longer care to be for us but now are against us.

In Chapter 12 of Every Day A Friday, Joel speaks about not being people pleasers who are with us one moment and the next they're against us; they leave us...as if they forgotten we exist.

The very title of this chapter already gave away what it's about without me even sharing with you all the above. It's titled, “Don't Live for the Approval of Others.” 

I have known what it is to have God speak to me and place a big dream in my heart that He is asking me to walk away from other things, then He can build me up for the amazing things He has in store for me. But those who were for me as long as I did what they thought was best, we're now against me. 

Joel speaks many times about how it was to transition from his father leading the church in Lakewood, TX to Joel leading it after his dad went to be with the Lord. Many people were with him, but there were a few who were against him, or wanted to tell him how to lead the church, how to do ministry, etc... Joel even says that one man actually told him ‘you're making a big mistake. And I just want to let you know if you move the church, I'm not following.’

Sadly, this man wasn't willing to understand and stand with Joel with the big dream God had placed into his heart and was building Joel up for. This is inevitable, just as it was with Jesus and HIS VERY OWN Family and close Confidant . Although at times we may have the best intentions and often times not so much, just as Jesus' family and close friend, we too, may experience others not agreeing with what God has called us to do and other times, people may very well not understand our God-given destiny. But, let not this misunderstanding deteriorate your resolve to bring glory, honor and praise to God in doing as He has called you to accomplish. Amen. 



My Takeaway:

If God is calling you to something bigger and better, know that it is He who has approved you, and as long as the Creator of the universe approves of you, you will be alright. Praise God Almighty that we have His approval which stands forever in Christ Jesus. As it says in His Word, ‘I will not leave you nor forsake you’ and again ‘Be strong and courageous for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.’ Amen! 

Thank you Lord!

As always...YOU ARE LOVED.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 11): Every Day a Friday

Chapter Eleven

Hola mi amigos...LOL. I thought it would be awesome to start out with a Spanish introduction. For those who are not familiar with the Spanish language, let me translate: Hello my friends. I hope all is well and you are experiencing and desiring God to do amazing things in your lives. We may never meet one another, but I pray over all my blog posts and for every heart, set of eyes, ears, hands and feet that will see, receive and share these words from my heart that comes from God's loving heart to be blessed. Amen. Always know that in Christ Jesus, you have Someone who is praying for you and desires the best for you. YOU ARE LOVED.

Alright! Which chapter we're on? Oh yeah... Chapter 11 "Living Without Crutches." If there was ever a chapter that challenged me it is chapter eleven. Today is May 4, 2012 and I read chapter 11 yesterday, but   you'll be reading this some time in June. How crazy is that?! I chuckle to myself now as I write this blog at my local Starbucks and I know I'm stalling. Why? Because my thoughts on chapter 11 are no longer fresh and I do not want to read the chapter again, but thanks be to God who uses all people in extraordinary ways, whether we know this or not to be a blessing to others. So with that said, I know God is going to hit a grand slam with this post as well. Amen. Okay Lord, do Your thing.

Chapter eleven, was a chapter that tested me. It caused me to ask myself questions that are hard for me to answer. Based on the title of the chapter in bold italics in the above paragraph, I heard a voice deep within me say to me to ask these questions to myself and to be honest when answering them. Here are those questions: 

What is a crutch to you Flavio? 
Are there any long term crutches in your life?

I'm not going to share to much about what Joel wrote in this chapter, but rather, I will share with you all some crutches I have had, experienced and witnessed along the way. For myself, and bear with me, I am being transparent before you so don't be quick to judge but quick to listen and have compassion on me. I have been a person who in his boredom has took to eating. Much of my weight gain has been due to this. I have known what it is to have family there to bail me out of trouble, and yes, having family to help out in times of need or trouble is a great thing, but if I become too comfortable with that help I will be crippling myself as I won't know how to find a solution on my own or know how to work through problems. I have also experience the crutch of relationships with the opposite sex. A crutch comes in many forms and if we're not careful we can find ourselves a cripple, not in the traditional sense, but practically unable to do for ourselves because we rely fully on others. 

With that being said, let me share some definitions that Joel shared about the word crutch. "A crutch is a temporary tool we use for walking following an injury to a leg or foot. Once the injury is healed, we put the crutch away and walk on our own. The word crutch is also used to describe something or someone we may rely on short-term to help us get through a period of challenge. The term takes on a bad connotation, though, when used to describe something that we've become unnecessarily dependent upon, usually to the detriment of our physical, mental, or emotional progress.

A crutch is supposed to be temporary, just until we heal, or until we can get by on our own. It's not supposed to be permanent, even when our crutch is someone important to us. One of the hardest things to accept is that not everyone is meant to be in our lives forever. Some people are meant to be with you for the long-term, of course- your spouse, your children, your siblings, your parents, and your closest friends. But then there are those God brings across your path for a season, maybe a mentor, a teacher, or a guide of some sort to help you through a certain stage of life or a difficult time."

I have struggled with the above. Sometimes it's hard to let go of others, even when it's apparent that the time you had together is clearly over. That's when heartache and pain set in and before you know it, love becomes hate and eventually indifference where the relationship becomes irreparable. Sometimes people leave our lives. Whether a friendship, a romantic relationship, a co-worker, boss, even someone we did ministry with. As Joel shares, If God didn't move them away, we would become too dependent. Instead of helping us, they would hinder us. Their presence might limit our growth. 

Joel also shares, that we 'have to be big enough to recognize when someone's part in our life story is over.' I believe this is paramount in having a healthy lifestyle. As I have been blessed by God to receive such advice early in my walk with Him, I pass it along to you. 'Everyone that comes into your life will always be a blessing to you whether you realize it then or later. They will either be in your life, "for a day, a season or a lifetime."' 

I will share two more things I believed were a great blessing in this chapter to share with you all. I will list them as bullet points. Why? Because I think bullet points are cool.

  • I've learned this: God will always bring the right people into your life, but you have to let the wrong people walk away. The right people will never show up if you don't clear out the wrong people.

  • (This one is from a great story in the Bible about a man named Gideon, which takes place in Judges 6-7. Feel free to read up on Gideon's lesson and blessing and how from 32,000 soldiers God took it down to 300 and Gideon experienced victory by God's guidance and promises.) Whether we believe it's all about the quantity that secures us victory, with God, it's about quality. It's not important how many you have on your side. What is important is having the right people on your side. 

My Takeaway:

Being a crutch or having a crutch for a short amount of time is a blessing from God. Long term crutches in any sense hinder us from becoming all that God has created us to become. But, having the right people in our lives is not a dime a dozen. It's not about the quantity but the quality of relationships we forged over time in our lives that will matter most. Only when we surround ourselves with those who will invest in our lives to the point they are giving more than they are taking, that is when we'll experience growth that will surpass all our expectations. In that! We will give all the glory to God. Amen.

A quick prayer. Father God, thank you for doing Your thing in this blog. You totally hit a grand slam...as always. Help us to choose the right people and let go of the wrong. Help us to rise above our crutch and rely on You to get us to where You have us to go. We thank You and give You all the glory and praise. In Jesus name. Amen.

As always...YOU ARE LOVED.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 10): Every Day A Friday

Chapter 10

How should I open up this chapter of My Book Report? Oh, I know! I'll ask God to bless you and allow you to see those very words of blessing.

Father and God, thank you for all the millions of readers that will take in these words. I thank you Lord for their lives. I thank you my God that they were born. I thank you for what you will do in their lives.  Thank you for their eyes, their ears, their hearts, their minds, their hands and their feet. I thank you for all of this as I ask you to bless all of them. May these words not escape their eyes, and may they not allow these words to escape the eyes of their families, friends, and co-workers. Thank you my God for hearing my words and moving in me to bless them, in Jesus name. Amen

That's a blessed opening, and now I want to share with all your precious hearts what I learned from chapter ten of Joel Osteen's "Every Day A Friday." Chapter ten is titled "You Can Have the Last Laugh." The title is intriguing. Isn't it?! Right off the back, the title makes me think of not so nice things. People getting revenge on others. Witnessing people scheming and plotting to repay back people evil for the evil they have done to them. Even a saying I have heard a few times. "You want to get back at someone, become rich." I don't think money may be an answer of retaliation as it may very well cause others to hate you, and envy you even more. That may seem well and good with others, but not with me. I'm not here to rub anything in any one's face, but I am here to show that a life lived to honor God, will result in God honoring you despite those who look to bring you down, and according to God's Word, God will make it that your critics (those who want you to fail) will see how blessed YOU ARE. Amen.

In reading chapter ten Joel took me on a journey throughout the Bible. I went to the books of Deuteronomy, Romans, 1 Samuel, Psalm, Proverbs, and Genesis. It was amazing. A thrill ride that doesn't leave you dizzy but with the treasury of your heart overflowing and spilling over. Amen. Joel goes on to advise us that although in life we may very well encounter dealings with critics, naysayers, backbiters, backstabbers, those who are jealous and who say we'll never make it, we who believe and receive God through Christ Jesus can be assured that God will give those individuals a clear view of our table of blessing. Joel goes on to say, that God will make sure those individuals will see us promoted, honored, and accomplished. 

The above words are summed up from these Two Verses, and they are evident blessings that are direct results of someone who trusts, believes and lives out these Two Verses

As I read chapter ten, it had me reflecting on one key moment in my walk with the Lord. Very early in my walk, the Lord asked me to leave a position I had great comfort and influence in. Three years exactly at a particular company, and in the last year of those three years, things really started to go well for me. I had peace with my bosses, my co-workers and I truly enjoyed my work. 

Although leaving seemed absolutely crazy as I received good pay, had great benefits and seniority, the Lord said this to me repeatedly, "If you don't leave, you'll miss out on the blessing I have for you." Even others in the Lord and those close to me said I was wrong to leave and that wasn't what God said to me. 

Sometimes, it could take years for someone to come up to you and congratulate you, but the Word of God says, "..let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up." (Galatians 6:9 NLT). 

My takeaway: 

For me in my life and the clear and concise way the Lord has spoken to me translates into this: Although it'll probably be some time before others can see the good work God is doing in my life, it may very well be the Lord building me up, and as I grow in the Lord, in due time what He first said to me will finally be made known to everyone else. Amen.

God is a promise keeper. It may not happen the way we want or expect, but be assured and at peace that it WILL happen. Amen.

As always...YOU ARE LOVED.


Wednesday, May 23, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 9): Every Day A Friday

Chapter Nine

Whoa baby! Chapter nine is amazing. You definitely need to get this book. I must say, by far this is my favorite book. I am pumped to share what God placed into my heart to share with all of you wonderful people.

Let me start by sharing something I am not particularly proud of... I have been a major complainer in my life. Yup! One excuse after another has been the name of the game when it has come to failing to reach my goals in life. I'm working on this. But here's some good news for myself and anyone who may share in this way of thinking, doing and living. What we may consider to be a disadvantage, shortcoming, or liability in our lives, God sees it as an advantage. An opportunity for God's glory to be made known, seen and shared with others. Amen, Lord Jesus!

That's right! God never calls anyone who has it all figured out. He doesn't call someone who thinks they're the bombdiggity.com God doesn't call those who walk around thinking they're big and bad, all that and a bag of chips. No certainly not! God calls those who are humble at heart. Those who would be quick to say that they aren't the right man or woman for the job, the task or the challenge. In fact, God loves an underdog. God loves a challenge. God loves when the odds are stacked up. God, wants to move mountains before us, take down fierce lions that roar at us, and split the opposition in two right before our eyes. Yes! That is our great God! C'mon somebody...Can I get an Amen?!

The title of chapter nine is, "A No-Excuses Life" and the challenge is this! Will we as individuals gain a right perspective on our lives, on the shortcomings we have, and look to God to help us use it to the best of our ability to impact this world for the good? That's a challenge alright. A challenge, that will only get accomplished if we look to God to help us, inspire us, encourage us, and lead us to that very purpose and calling we all have.

Joel shares so many wonderful things in this chapter. It would be presumptuous of me to say that chapter nine is the best chapter thus far. Especially when there's 27 chapters in total. But I'll say this. This is a must read chapter.

Here's something that many of us get hung up on. I am not talented enough. If you are anything like me, the words highlighted here are a bold reality in our thought process. We see ourselves as not tall enough. Too short. having the wrong upbringing. lacking the intelligence, the strength, the ability, the courage, the know how to get anything accomplished. I know I have. But once again, here's the good news. God made you exactly as you are. God didn't form you and say, Man! I messed that one up, oh well. No! God created you exactly the way you are, specific for the life you would experience, and absolutely gifted you with everything you need to accomplish what He purposed you for. Isn't that reassuring?! But many of you are saying, 'That is good and all, but you don't know my situation.' That is true. I don't know your situation. But God does. If we all will look to God, he will awaken in us the very talents, gifts, and skill set we already have and sharpen them in order to be used to make a difference in this world. But first! You and I need to understand and be willing to thank God for who He is, what He's done and everything He will do in and through our lives. Even if that situation we're praying to be removed never gets answered. This is tough, but God is Sovereign, faithful and just. He will always make a way if we're willing to follow Him.

Joel shares a story of a man by the name of Tony Melendez. Joel writes, Tony was born without any arms. (Now there's a roadblock if any.) But Tony, as a little boy had a desire to play the guitar. Something inside said, You're supposed to sing and write music. Tony didn't know any better. He could have said, "Too bad for me. I'd love to play the guitar, but I don't have any arms." Instead, his attitude was, I may not have any arms, but I do have feet. I may not have any fingers, but I do have ten toes. 


Tony learned to play the guitar with his feet. Joel goes on to share that Tony can play the guitar better with his feet than most people play with their hands. Something occurred to me as I was reading this chapter. God is in the business of amazingly using ordinary and seemingly handicap people to do extraordinary things. Joel goes on to share some other stories with people who had genuine handicaps, but those handicaps were used to their advantage, but I want to share one last story. This story took place thousands of years ago. We can read it in the Bible in Luke 19:1-10. It's a story of a man who seemingly had two handicaps working against him. His height and his reputation. This story is a friendly reminder that God notices our so-called "disadvantages" and wants to reward us, when we don't allow them to get in our way of having God very much a part of our lives. Amen.




My Takeaway:

When we're called to do something of significance; something extraordinary by God, although we're humbled and excited by it, we tend to respond with this attitude, 'how can lil' oh me accomplish this?' God responds, "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." I want to do myself a favor, and you're welcomed to do the same... Trust and allow God to show up and show out! He never fails to disappoint. Amen.

As always...YOU ARE LOVED.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 7): Every Day A Friday

Chapter Seven


Today is April 5, 2012. I'm including the date on this particular post as what I will share with you in this paragraph took place today, and not the day you will read this. Just me being thoughtful, that's all. This chapter was one that I didn't read through completely in one sitting. It actually took me several days to read through it. Not because I'm a slow reader, but because of many factors, but I tell you this! I'm glad It took the time it did, as it was a confirmation to me from another post I wrote earlier in the morning (in which you can see by clicking HERE), and a conversation I had earlier in the morning with my girl friend over the stresses of this world and how they can overwhelm us but the good news of how the circumstances of this world do not affect God, who is Jehovah Jireh; The Lord Our Provider. Amen.

I don't know about you, but I'm amazed at how God pieces everything together. Only someone who believes in God and the Salvation received only through His Son Jesus, can understand what I'm saying. So know that I'll be praying if you don't already know Jesus, by the end of this read, you will! Here's another place where you can experience that in your own personal time (PLEASE ENTER THIS PLACE OF BLESSING HERE.)

Getting back to Every Day A Friday in this chapter Joel gives many practical ways to "Know What To Ignore." Knowing what to ignore isn't as easily done as said. It all boils down to choosing our battles wisely. Something I'm steadily learning. Please pray for me on that. That word battle, makes knowing what to ignore something that will hurt you, right? Battles do cause and create pain. But I believe more importantly we can see from this word, that battles also are fought for something. If we are choosing our battles wisely, then it's safe to say we are choosing wisely what rewards will come from those battles. That's exactly what Joel suggests. He says we should ask ourselves when we are going to enter into battle, "Are the battles I'm engaged in worth fighting? Do they have any rewards? Are they furthering me toward my God-given destiny?"


Many things in life have the potential to be seen as a battle. The question both you and I have to ask ourselves is this: Will I enter into this battle to settle to injure and be injured, or am I wisely choosing this battle because the rewards far exceed everything else?


My Takeaway:


In knowing what to ignore and what to engage, shows great integrity on your behalf. It shows that you choose your battles wisely, and lead out by example. Choosing your battles wisely isn't easy. It takes practice. It takes a heart that desires to be of peace. It takes a problem solver by being a solution giver...It takes a peacemaker.

Father, thank You for a Spirit of peace, that leads to so many other blessings. Give us the strength to endure all challenges with peace and a good attitude. In Jesus name, Amen.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

My Book Report (Chapter 6): Every Day A Friday

Chapter Six
“An Attitude of Gratitude is not a catchy slogan. It's an untapped resource.” – F. Lugo




I am amazed! I repeat I am amazed! How amazing it is to receive such wonderful blessings from words in a book. Words on a screen. Words delivered through a social networking site. Words from someone who cares. When these words are filled with goodness. When these words are uplifting, and never aimed to bring you down, I write to you all, be amazed! And thank God!


Chapter six from those words above you can probably put together in your amazing mind that it's a chapter that will have you thankful and amazed. By the way did you know one of my favorite words in the English dictionary is Awesome! Why do I let you know that? Because the word amazing is AWESOME!


"The Right Perspective" would be an awesome way to describe chapter six. In fact, that's the title of chapter 6: "The Right Perspective." Throughout this chapter there is one underlining truth that is amazingly awesome. We are so blessed, the mere fact that all of us at some point or another think we aren't blessed is staggering. Therefore, let me take the initiative and let you in on a little secret. I have often thought I wasn't as blessed as I should have. Are you in shock? I hope you are, because chances are high, you too, have thought, felt and expressed in your life more than once that you were not blessed. Maybe you didn't use those exact words, but maybe these sound more familiar,"Nothing good ever happens to me," or better yet, "Why me?"


Here's a little snippet of something Joel mentioned, shedding light on The Right Perspective to have in his book Every Day A Friday. "I read recently that more than a million people die every single week. Think about it. You made it another week! You're better off than a million people. You can thank God you're alive."  (Here) is where you can find some sobering statistics.  


Joel goes on to share this as well, "The article also said that if you have a roof over your head, you are better off than 75 percent of the world's population. And if you have fifteen dollars to your name, you are in the top 8 percent of the world's wealthiest people- fifteen dollars!"


How's that for the right perspective? There is so much to be thankful for, and as Joel shared a great exercise to gain the right perspective, I share it all with you. Make a list of everything God has blessed you with, and by the end of it, you'll have gained The Right Perspective.


Here's a bit of direction for you when writing your list. Joel mentions a man who complained he had 'no good shoes,' then he met a man without feet. In that very moment and from then on, that man had The Right Perspective.



My Takeaway:

The Right Perspective comes from the heart that praises and thanks God. The more I praise God the less I see room to complain. If I develop a spirit of continual thanks and praise to God while meditating on His goodness, I wont have time to focus on what's wrong or to complain about what I don't have or what I can't do, because I'll be to grateful to God for what I DO have and what I CAN do. Just as King David wrote, and knew the secret to The Right Perspective, I share this secret with you. "I WILL bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall continually be in my mouth." (Psalm 34:1 AMP) and apparently the apostle Paul knew this secret as well, as he wrote, 'give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.' (1 Thessalonians 5:18 NIV)




Beloved, I leave you with these words. They are my words to God as soon as I finished reading chapter six and reflecting on His goodness in my life.

Father, I want to apologize for not appreciating everything I have been blessed with as if it were the first time I received it. Thank you for your friendly reminders. Thank you for personalities like Joel Osteen. Thank you that the smiling saints belonging to your kingdom have been here on earth gracing us with their demeanor and amazing perspective. Help me to always have The Right Perspective. Amazed by You, my God!